Update on me.

My mom and I are doing own thing for thanksgiving. Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!!! My friend talked about having a brithday party. She's going to invite the girl I have porblems with. So I will not be going. My cousin is married to a guy who is very violent. She's not in school.

More Updates:
This is an email I sent my firend about her b-day party:
Dear J,
If you invite E to your B-day party. I will not be coming I don't want to be in the same room with her or see her at all. I hope you can understand my feelings and I think it would be best if we did our own thing for our b-days this year
N
And here's her two reply's:
Hi N
I completely understand your situation with E. I'm going to have a party for my birthday I invited you because I didn't want to leave you out of it just because of E. After all that would not be fair to both you and me since were both friends. But I'm thinking if I do have a party and you can't make it, I'm sure we can do our own thing the day after, which would be on Sunday. So I'm sure we could work something out :-)

Love J

Here's her other reply:
Hi N
Just writing to say hi and to talk to you about something. Understand writing this email was really hard for me to do, but since you’re my good friend I feel that I should talk to you about this because I’m a little concerned. But no matter what you think or if you get upset with me, always know that I still think of you as a great friend, ok? Anyway first of all I think I should be honest. Whenever we try to make plans and when you say you can never go, deep down inside it hurts me. It hurts me because I want to hang out with you and I want you to have a good time with me and all our friends. Every time we try to include you in something, it always seems like you say that you don’t feel good or that it’s a bad day to hang out. I just want you to be honest with me. How come you don’t enjoy hanging out with me that much anymore? We used to hang out all the time and I miss that. I miss celebrating our birthdays together too. All of this was very hard for me to say but it’s been on my mind for a long time and I just could not keep all these feelings inside me any longer. I hope you will understand and respect my honesty and don’t take this email personally.

Love J
What would you do I've made plans with her and she is the one that says she can't go not me.

Gee Sis this situation sounds kinda complicated ...I'm not sure what to say but...

The fact is U confronted her & she did too...still U 2 are stuck on whether or not, U're gonna celebrate the B'day party 2gether...becuz of E. So I think U 2 really need to talk things through..U know clear all the stuff out & come up with a solution to this whole situation.

She knows I have plans for the whole week of my birthday. I told her the dates I had open but she's gone that week.

Oh thats kinda not fair...as your good friend she should be there for your B'day no matter what other plans she has for that week.

I know but we share the same b-day. And she's inviting the girl I have problems with. I can't be around this other girl because cause she has made threats too me.

Ohhhh U 2 have the same B-day's...now I get it.

Yeah I remember U once said that E has made threats to U...so J knows about the whole thing & still she's inviting her...that'll totally ruin your B-day party...is she really good friends with E?

Yep she's really good firends with E.

More on the whole thing I've come to see that J didn't have my back at all. All these years I had her back and she never had mine.Some Stuff has recently came to light she talked about me behind my back and blabed secrets about me.

Today was a great day got some x-mas shopping done. And I'm sorting out this whole thing and what to do about it.

Oh good to know that you're sorting things out with J...even after what she did.

So sorry I havent been around to give you some advice on this one Nikki....but it looks like our lil Sis, Tasha, has been there for you. It's too bad that you're having to find out after all this time that "J" doesn't have your back. I know you're hurting inside but if the relationship can't be repaired in the way that you want it to, then you may have to let it go. Friends respect each other's feeling....sounds like "J" has the problem...not you! Just remember...when one door closes....another opens. You definitely have friends here.....

Oh U said it Sis...U're soo great at giving advices

Natalie wrote:

So sorry I havent been around to give you some advice on this one Nikki....but it looks like our lil Sis, Tasha, has been there for you. It's too bad that you're having to find out after all this time that "J" doesn't have your back. I know you're hurting inside but if the relationship can't be repaired in the way that you want it to, then you may have to let it go. Friends respect each other's feeling....sounds like "J" has the problem...not you! Just remember...when one door closes....another opens. You definitely have friends here.....

Thanks so much. I've just found out that the secrets she told lead to me getting in trouble in high school.

High school is in the past lil sis....its time to focus on what Nikki can do to please...Nikki! I know you can't entirely erase those bad things out of your head...but focus on something else. You got Tasha, you got me, you got your other BK sisters, you got your cat.....hey, you got B-R-I-A-N...and there's certainly enough of him to share (hehehehehe)!!!

Tell ya what....how about doing a little "BK fan imaginarium writing"....and if you don't want it to be about BK, then just write about something else...try to keep it positive cuz we want to lift your spirits....write it out and share it with us (if you want).

sorry to but in, but whenever some says something to me i don't let it worry me because at the end of the day there just words, i also like to watch a show called "friends" its funny and whenever i feel down or can't take it anymore i put that on and it lifts my spirits and make's me laugh

Yeah...I like that show too! I try to watch it whenever I can....

that's what I'm doing plus taking those online classes and working on my charmed scrapbooks.

I making my own BK scrapbook.

Ashley101 wrote:

sorry to but in, but whenever some says something to me i don't let it worry me because at the end of the day there just words, i also like to watch a show called "friends" its funny and whenever i feel down or can't take it anymore i put that on and it lifts my spirits and make's me laugh

Oh FRIENDS...I just love "Friends" its my #1 fav show of all time, just like "Charmed"
These 2 were definitely the BEST shows ever to hit the TV stations...don't U think!

charmedpiper08 wrote:

that's what I'm doing plus taking those online classes and working on my charmed scrapbooks.

charmedpiper08 wrote:

I making my own BK scrapbook.

Thats great Sis!

Nikki...about your BK scrapbook...that sounds like a great project. wouldn't it be nice if you could share it on the Board with your sisters? something like putting the pictures in the "BK Fan Imaginarium" room ...after all, it's your project and your personal way of expressing your devotion to our guy, right? ....just like the writings that Tasha and I did. What does everyone think about that? Hey Tasha, as our Administrator, do you think thats duable?

I'll put pics up when I start it. But it won't be for awhile.

Natalie wrote:

Nikki...about your BK scrapbook...that sounds like a great project. wouldn't it be nice if you could share it on the Board with your sisters? something like putting the pictures in the "BK Fan Imaginarium" room ...after all, it's your project and your personal way of expressing your devotion to our guy, right? ....just like the writings that Tasha and I did. What does everyone think about that? Hey Tasha, as our Administrator, do you think thats duable?

Yeah Sis couldn't agree with U more..."Bk Fans Imaginarium" is all about expressing our devotion to our GUY...& Nikki's BK scrapbook definitely deserves to be a part of our "BK Fans Imaginarium" room...but the problem is that we can't post pics there cuz fanfiction.net only allows writings. So what we can do is...open up our "Bk Fans Imaginarium" as a topic here on the "Member Fan Stuff" thread...& post our pieces there & then Nikki can post her scrapbook clipppings there too...what do U think?

charmedpiper08 wrote:

I'll put pics up when I start it. But it won't be for awhile.

Cool...will be waiting for it Sis!

That sounds like a great idea.

Thanks Sis...then I'll open up the "Bk Fans Imaginarium" here